THE EXISTENCE OF LOVE

        Love is a universal feeling. Everybody wants it, needs it, and seeks for it. It is an essential feeling that people require as part of survival. Love is wonderful, magical, mysterious, amazing, forgiving, accepting, affection, and embracing. It is not necessary that love exists only between opposite sexes but love is between human kind, between brothers, sisters, brothers and sisters, parents and children, husband and wife, between neighbors, between friends, and between nations. Therefore, nobody can deny the existence of love in this world. Love creates smiles in our faces, and makes our day complete. Man cannot live without love as what I’ve said; love is a way of survival. The existence of love in this world becomes phenomenon since all of us feel and experience it! It created atmospheric condition that will take place either good or bad condition, but when people believed and trust on it, everything will follow and so on and so fort. How does love started? What do you think? Well, for me love starts when you love yourself first more than else. Love and respect yourself first so that you will learn to love others. That’s the most important thing that we should consider here. Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all and if you do it by yourself you accomplish the biggest reward in your life. Then, after achieving it, you’ll now ready to love others and expect the holy presence of love. Moreover, Love is the most wonderful gift we can ever hope to give or receive. Love is one thing that can overcome so many difficult times that we are faced with in life. Love is so powerful, it can turns frowns into smiles. It can help mend the most broken heart; it can even turn all of the ugliness in the world into the most beautiful portrait we could ever have the pleasure to be hold. 

     Everybody has felt it at one time or another, person, pet or even non-living things go through the so called love. Love felt in different intensities. We have many reasons to feel in love, we can love many things, we can love different people. Love is rarely defined because everyone experiences it differently. How does one know he or she is in love? How is it impossible to distinguish between the love of romance and the love shared between friends? In order to define love, we need to first understand the two major types of love: romantic love and friendship love. People often define romantic love based on its difference from friendship love. Romantic love is often confused with infatuation because it is all consuming. Romantic lovers are usually on each other’s mind. A person may make decisions based on his or her romantic partner. To love another is the supreme sacrifice of self. For we must give freely and completely of ourselves to another, without reservation or condition. It includes intense passion, intense pleasure, and intense emotional and sexual desire that are part of romantic love. Respect is one of the main concerns when it comes to relationship. On the other hand, Friendship love may help people through hard times as much as any other type of love.  Friendship love is often the longest lasting type of love in many people’s lives.  For lots of people friendship love has been the most reliable kind of love in their lives.  Friendship love can be the type of love that has the least complications, hassles and problems.  In the lives of no small number of people it is friendship love that has been the deepest and most profound type of love they have experienced. It is friendship love that gets that friend to stand by you as you blunder and struggle with your life, and your flaws and shortcomings.  It is friendship love that motivates a friend not to give up on you even when you are being absurdly wrong, stupid and self-defeating. Love between friends strengthens the bond of friendship. They can never think of betraying one another. A friendship based on love is never affected by selfish motives. Each one is ready to make a sacrifice for the other. Even differences of opinions don't hinder the strong bonds of friendship. We enjoy each and every moment with our friends. We forget all worries and hardship of life when we are with them. Love between friends, thus generates happiness.

    Love is not always ends happily, it is a mixture of feelings whether negative or positive sides. In love, you might experiencing anger, mistakes, heartaches, harshness, impatience, envy, revenge, expectation, and even troubles that you might experiencing throughout the unpredictable world of love.  The word love has crested numerous meaning by the different kinds of people on earth; the significance of love is widely spread throughout the universe. However, you have the freedom on how you apply love in your most creative and sufficient way.

     Love fills a person with noble feelings: compassion, sympathy, sacrifice, understanding, welfare etc. Another side of love is the affection of mother to her children. A mother's love for her children is something very divine. She is forever ready to suffer any hardship for the happiness of her children. Love between a child and a mother is the purest form of love. Love of a mother is so deep and eternal that she can understand even those things which her child doesn't even speak. Unconditional love is what a mother can give to her children.

      Love between neighbors brings peace in the neighborhood. People willingly come forward to help one another. They share one another's joys and sorrows. They can never think of causing harm to one another. Love between neighbors strengthens fellow felling. People of such a neighborhood lean a happy life. Neighbors who love and respect one another to have a get-together and festive occasions. They jointly celebrate festivals and enjoy one another's company.                 

      Love is essential, it gives us inspiration to live life to the fullest, and it also motivates us, a way of survival, giving hopes and can fulfill happiness. Love is all we need; love can move mountains in the name of love. Love can turn sadness to happiness. Love causes less stress, less heartaches, less misunderstanding, less of just about everything negative if you handle this in a proper way of your living. Love does reap rewards- happiness, health, joy, peace, and so much more that’s positive. Can you imagine living without love? It’s quite boring right? Living with love in our hearts, in our soul and everything can create a fantastic things and worth living in this world. See, how abundant love is. In general the meaning of love teaches us how we feel each other, how good or bad we are to each other and how much we satisfy or dissatisfy each other. Love truly exists in all aspects of our lives.